Excuses is a Down fall

The biggest down fall for us as humans is the word EXCUSE.. we make excuses for everything. I hear so many men say they don't know how to be fathers, or how to treat a woman because they dad never taught them or showed them how...same for women on how to treat a man... but that's all an excuse..You should want to be better then your parents.. and you should want to educate yourself to strengthen your weakness. If u never had a dad.. surround yourself around men you desire to be like.. and learn from them.. same for women.. surround yourself around married women who u can learn from.... you will never learn hanging with people with the same weakness as you.. Stop making excuses of WHY YOU CANT.. and make a CHOICE why YOU WILL.. Stop looking for a pitty party for your mistakes. and MAN or WOMAN the HELL UP....