Love without Fear

You cannot Protect your HEART from getting broken. But With Faith and GOD there is no Pain u Cant over come. Dont live life scared to fail, because you will never go far. Live life knowing if u fall God has the power to get you back up in a split second if u Believe. many are scared to love, because a person we chose to give our love too didnt love us the same. But that is their loss not yours. Continue to Love with out fear and watch how strong you become, and how many things you overcome.

Ignorance love company

An IGNORANT and JEALOUS woman will Down talk a woman who takes care and submit to her man...She will tell that woman that she is crazy and should not go the extra mile for her man...That same woman is Wondering WHY none of her relationships last.. and why she cant get a ring on her finger or a man to treat her like a queen... remember that....The key is Going over an beyond for someone who is worth it..and you will get it in return.. Tell them stop hating.

Excuses is a Down fall

The biggest down fall for us as humans is the word EXCUSE.. we make excuses for everything. I hear so many men say they don't know how to be fathers, or how to treat a woman because they dad never taught them or showed them how...same for women on how to treat a man... but that's all an excuse..You should want to be better then your parents.. and you should want to educate yourself to strengthen your weakness. If u never had a dad.. surround yourself around men you desire to be like.. and learn from them.. same for women.. surround yourself around married women who u can learn from.... you will never learn hanging with people with the same weakness as you.. Stop making excuses of WHY YOU CANT.. and make a CHOICE why YOU WILL.. Stop looking for a pitty party for your mistakes. and MAN or WOMAN the HELL UP....

Why love is not strong?

I FEAR whats to COME with RELATIONSHIPS AND LOVE. Lets just be honest, the #1 reason Love is not as Strong as it use to be is because GOD is Last an we have too many distractions. Im Guilty of it too. Its a daily trend, FB, Instagram and TV. Example you watching the Game, posting on FB, She doing her own thing, posting on FB, or watching reality shows. Since yall been home the only thing you said to each other was "hey how was your day".. you wash you, eat, watch tv, then Go to bed, An all you said to each other was Hey how was your day, and Good Night. The only time we Find time to enjoy each other is Sex.. other than that.. We distant in the home. If we had no TV, Computer, Or phone and we was all alone, could we have fun with each other???? You cant work problems out if you dont have a connection with each other.

Woman in the Mirror

LOOK in the Mirror!!! you BAD you got them 7 inch heels, you got that 24" Brazilian hair, you got that 3 tone make up, on yo eye, Dem Long Lashes, Nails done, toes, done.. POW you killing them Hoes so u say??.. But what other Qualities do u have to Back all that up??? Can you stimulate a mans mind with your Conversation, Can you help support him Financially, Can u cook him a Hot meal ( not noodles) Can u care for him when he sick. Or encourage him when he is down?, Can you give him a Mental Ego stroke with out using your hands? most of all can you PRAY with and for him?? " Guess what" ( A REAL WOMAN CAN) SO ARE YOU ONE??? OR YOU JUST THAT IMAGE WITH OUT THE VALUE OR SKILL????

Are you a real man???

Fellas, You got some New Jordan's on our feet, New rims on your car, a Fresh Rolled Blunt on your ear, you got a Roll of money in your pocket... you say how u a real man, but you Rather buy a Oz of weed then Buy your child some shoes. You rather see your Baby mamma struggle with YOUR CHILD and expect another man to pull your Weight.. " but you a man" so you say. You would rather chill with your boys cause you so say, Loyal to them but you will let your kids down after you promised them you would spend time with them. "but you a man" so u say. You sit at home because you feel you too good to Bust your ass and sweat and make a honest dollar, you turn down jobs because you dont want to work. " but you a man so you say"? A REAL MAN IS LOOKED UP TO, A REAL MAN IS VALUED BY HIS WOMAN, A REAL MAN WILL DO WHAT EVER IT TAKES TO MAKE SURE HIS KIDS HAVE WHAT THEY NEED. A REAL MAN WILL GRAB HIS GIRL HAND AN CHILD AND PRAY WITH AND FOR THEM, AND REAL MAN NEVER SAYS WHAT HE CANT DO, HE DOES WHAT HE HAS TO DO. A REAL MAN CAN RESPECT A WOMAN AN NOT TEAR HER DOWN PHYSICALLY OR VERBALLY. A REAL MAN WILL SUPPORT AN RESPECT A WOMAN WHO IS TRYING TO BETTER HERSELF. A REAL MAN WILL SPEND JUST AS MUCH TIME WITH HIS DAUGHTER AS HE DO HIS SON. SO BEFORE YOU CLAIM YOU A MAN, ARE YOU REALLY???? ( To many women give their hearts to Males who are not MEN) and end up hurt.

Pride!!!

There is a "P" word that will Hold you back from many things in life. It will hold you back from experiencing true love. It will hold you back from accepting someones apology. It will hold u back from Apologizing. This word can ruin your life. that word is PRIDE!!!!! Please put Pride aside so u can experience the greatness of Life and Love. Because when u have pride in you, its so hard to love, or be loved.

Keep friends out your business

How many of yall ever let yalls friends TALK yall out of dating someone who could have been Mr/MS RIGHT!!!!! Just because of what they thought or heard about the person ...SMH...Please dont let someone make you turn your back on what can be a blessing to u.

Negativity

Real talk, IF someone tells you something NEGATIVE about another person, 9 times out of 10, the person hating Wish they were that other person, or wish they had what that other person has.. SO WHEN YOUR FRIENDS TELL U SOMETHING NEGATIVE, LOOK AT YOUR FRIEND STUPID. AND QUESTION THEM.

Commitment

Being committed to someone is not just Emotional or Physical. It also respecting each others privacy, and not telling all your friends or BEST friend what goes on in yalls house. Or in yalls Relationship. Many wont agree, but when you GOSSIP about your mate you are not being committed to them. When you snoop around, regardless what your Intuition is telling you. YOU ARE NOT BEING COMMITTED TO THEM. So before you throw that word out as a weapon think about it good.

Independent vs Self sufficient

If you’re ‘independent’ you’re incapable of depending on another, for whatever. Financially, emotionally, socially … whatever. If you’re "self sufficient" that means you can get done what needs doing, should you have to. Women in long lasting successful relationships know the difference between being independent and being self sufficient. Part of what makes a relationship work is the support you get from one another.It’s cool, go ‘head and be little miss independent while you’re tryna get your money up, or build your career or raise them babies by yourself… but if you’re looking for a man to build something meaningful with? Then you’re gonna need to turn that independent switch down just a little to self sufficient. Know the Difference

Love is not Pain

Never let the thought of love or the attachment of love for someone keep you in a painful an abusive relationship.

Never fear being alone

So many people fear being alone. So they jump from relationship to relationship even if they know its not a good one. All this will do is drive you deeper into heart ache. Being alone is like a mental and emotional detox. Alone time is needed for you to evaluate yourself and find your own flaws. When you are alone its helps you find what u truly deserve and desire.

Never get discourage

Never let the lack of support from a loved one, or friend stop you from pushing towards your dream or goal. Many people give up cause they dont have enough support. Just know as long as u pray an believe u can make it God an you is the only support you need. Never let haters or jealousy discourage you.

Skin color does not define success.

The Color of your skin will not hold you back from achieving and becoming successful. Your mentality and your work ethic is what will hold you back from not moving up or going forward. Please get out that Mind set because it will Handicap you. The friends and people you hang around has a major impact on your success and achievement. Your attire has a major impact on your success an achievement. And last but not least your LINGO has a major impact on your success and achievement.

Wake up women

No REAL MAN worth RESPECTING is going to let any woman talk to him reckless, speaking negatively into his life, crushing his spirit & killing his dreams. A man worth respecting is a man in all sense of the word.. he has purpose & he knows it.. and what a woman has between her legs will not be worth the disrespect. Some women think with a vagina they can walk all over ALL men.. & MOST you can.. but certainly not the man described above! they aint having the BS. Real women build up real men.. a woman thats truly down for her man & builds him up.. he makes it a priority to give her the love she needs. Respect is just as important to real men as love is to real women.

Heart beat of love

Good Communication is the Heart beat of love....with out it you have nothing but built up tension in your home. And attitude all over.

Talking down will make you weak

A PERSON WHO HAS TO " TALK DOWN ON SOMEONE, TO MAKE THEMSELVES LOOK GOOD" IS ACTUALLY A "WEAK" AND IMMATURE PERSON. Women do it just as much as Men do it.. Talk down on the next person to make you look perfect. dont fall in that TRAP.. I been there an im Glad im not there no longer.

Are you really in love?

So many People get caught up thinking they are in love, or they want to hang around for the sake of their child, but your happiness is most important. Many people pray that God can change there man/woman, and make them a husband/wife but sometimes God is telling you I HAVE A HUSBAND or WIFE FOR YOU, but you have to close the door you hanging on too. before he can bless you with it. Many times you pray for a Mate, but you Ignore when you are Approached by them because you want GOD to give you a BODY like a super star, or a perfect white smile or a long bank account. I dont think it works like that, because thats not what true love is all about.

Love has to be Supportive

Trying to love someone who does not support your dreams or is not willing to sacrifice to help your dream come true. Is a waste of time. True love cares for one another and you will want to help the person you love with out question. FAKE love or material love will only make u support when its benificial to you only. Or if you getting something out the deal.

Do you Believe?

DO YOU BELIEVE???? DO you believe that GOD can Turn any pain you have endured into a smile??? Do you believe that you can be LOVED?? Do you believe that you can achieve anything you set forth. DO you Believe in yourself???

Man up men

I cant understand How a man can Make a BABY and not give a damn about the child or the child needs.. I cant Imagine Putting anything but GOD before my child. No woman, no friends, nothing but GOD would come before my seed. How can you call yourself a man when you turn away when your own child reaches out for you crying. You call your self a man, but your child needs clothes and shoes and you can care less. Even if you are not with the mother, its still your responsibility. JUST CAUSE SHE DONT WANT TO TAKE YOU BACK, DONT TAKE IT OUT ON THE CHILD OR GIVE UP YOUR RIGHTS as a father. Take yo lick and take care your child

2 types of Love

Two types of love, that are build 2 different ways. " Love for the moment" and "love for life." Your physical structure will attract love for the moment. You young, so its right and tight. Popping out, sitting up... nice and round.. But will the love be there when it all FALLS DOWN???? Love for life, starts with loving for whats in the heart, and for the soul of someone. that will keep you attracted when its up and down. Because that type of love is not physical BOUND. :). So which do you desire, and which do you attract??? hummmm

Looking back will hold you back

One thing that messes up a lot of us, and holds us back from moving forward, is LOOKING BACK!!! When we pray an ask God to lead us and Guide us, we cant look back we have to keep pressing on. If you trying to change, an be better there is no reason to look back, because you should not miss what you shed off.

Is telling a Lie bad or good?

Telling a LIE or Twisting the truth is it really wrong???? When u ask a Dr if you going to be ok. He does not say " no you dying" they try an comfort you even at the worst point. When someone needs motivation. You can lie to boost there ego to help them. We lie about santa clause to kids. We lie about the tooth fairy. So is lying really all bad????

Keep a man

Long time ago. People was poor. They didnt have all the finer things. They woked. Ate. And made love... no outside distractions. Women back then knew how to keep their man home and keep him inlove with her.. She cook which filled his gut. And she wore him out to where all he could do was Doe Doe. Nothing else mattered. These days women think their Fasion, looks, sex appeal or career is going to keep a man at home and that so far from the truth. If you aint Cooking and you aint wearing him out. You aint the only one...