Defusing anger in a relationship

AS A RELATIONSHIP GROWS, U HAVE TO LEARN HOW TO DEFUSE AN ARGUMENT RATHER THAN FUEL IT, AND THIS IS SOMETHING 98% OF PEOPLE DONT KNOW HOW TO DO. INCLUDING MYSELF, A MANS WAY OF DEFUSING IS WALKING AWAY, BUT THAT FUELS A WOMANS AND HER LOUD MOUTH OR ATTITUDE FUELS HIS , SO HOW CAN WE LEARN TO DEFUSE ARE PARTNERS ANGER??? ANY ADVICE?

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WHY DOES IT TAKE PEOPLE LOOSING SOMETHING VALUABLE, OR GETTING HURT TO CHANGE FROM THERE BAD WAYS OR HABITS???

GOOD THING GONE

WHY IS IT THAT "U NEVER SEE WHAT YOUR GOOD THING IS UNTIL ITS GONE"????? IS THERE ANYWAY TO BREAK THIS CYCLE???

A CLOSE MOUTH DONT GET FED

A CLOSE MOUTH DONT GET FED!! WHAT EVER U ARE LACKING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP, BE OPEN AND TELL THAT PERSON, DONT JUST STAY QUIET AND ASSUME THEY KNOW!! IF U FEEL UNLOVED "TELL THEM" AND GIVE REASONS WHY? AND TELL THEM WHAT THEY COULD DO TO CHANGE IT. ALOT OF US COMPLAIN BEFORE WE COMMUNICATE!! BOTH MEN AND WOMEN NEED TO BE OPEN MINDED AND NOT GET SET IN YOUR OWN WAY, BE OPEN FOR CHANGE!

WHAT IS A WOMAN???

WHAT IS A WOMAN? TO ME A WOMAN IS A "HEART". VERY STRONG, BUT FRAGILE, iF SHE IS NOT WORKED OUT, OR USED IN A GOOD WAY, SHE WILL CATCH A HEART ATTACK BECAUSE WOMEN ARE EMOTIONAL. TREASURE YOUR WOMAN, CAUSE WOMEN NEED STRONG MEN TO SUPPORT THEM AND MOTIVATE THEM, NOT TEAR THEM DOWN. A WOMAN IS A BLESSING TO US MEN, IT WAS A GIFT FROM GOD. SO LOVE HER, LIKE YOUR LOVE YOURSELF

FINDING A MATE

FINDING A MATE IS LIKE FINDING A CAR.. THE MORE EXPENSIVE U GO, THE MORE IT COST TO MAINTAIN IT. SO DONT TRY FIND SOMETHING JUST TO STUNT, OR SHOW OFF. U DONT HAVE TO MAKE NO ONE HAPPY BUT YOURSELF, NO ONE HAS TO RIDE IN IT BUT YOU. SO LONG AS ITS DEPENDABLE, U LIKE THE PAINT JOB, AND ITS COMFORTABLE FOR U, THEN THATS ALL THAT MATTERS.

RELATIONSHIP BASHING

. WHY DO PEOPLE TRY TO BASH THE PERSON U ARE DATING?? FOR EXAMPLE, " EWE GIRL YOUR MAN NOT ALL THAT, I THINK U COULD HAVE DONE BETTER OR FOUND SOMEONE FINER?? OR A GIRL TELLING A GUY, " YOUR OLE LADY ALRIGHT BUT SHE NOT ALL THAT, U COULD HAVE FOUND SOMEONE BETTER OR PRETTIER ?? MY QUESTION IS WHY DO PEOPLE DO THIS???

RELATIONSHIP PAST HISTORY???

JUST LIKE A USED CAR WE GET CAR FAX, SHOULD WE DO THIS IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP? THE CHANCES OF U FINDING SOMEONE BRAND NEW UN TOUCHED IS 1 OUT OF 1 MILLION. SO SHOULD U CHECK THE MILEIAGE? WEAR AND TEAR?? OR SHOULD U JUST JUMP IN IT AND GO!!!! WITH NO WORRIES ABOUT THE PAST HISTORY?? THIS IS TUFF

EX LOVER????

IF YOU ARE WITH SOMEONE YOU HAVE NO PLANS TO LEAVE, DONT RECONNECT WITH A LOST PAST LOVE, EVEN IF HE OR SHE REACHES OUT LET IT GO!!

WHAT IS LOVE

NO 1 PERSON LOVES THE SAME, MEN AND WOMAN LOVE DIFFERENT, SO NEVER EXPECT SOMEONE TO LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU WANT... LOVE IS NOT DEFINED BY A PERSONAL CHARACTERISTIC. HE OR SHE MAYBE LOVING YOU WITH ALL HE OR SHE HAS. LOVE TAKES 2 TO CREATE. ITS SOMETHING THAT IS DEVELOPED, NOT SOMETHING THAT U EASILY GET WITH OUT TRIAL AND TRIBULATIONS

WHAT WOMEN WANT??? OR DESIRE

A WOMAN WILL PICK FIGHTS, SNOOP AROUND, AND HOLD It BACK FROM U, WHEN SHE FEELS UNLOVED. Alot of times us men dont see the need and hunger for love in OUR womans eyes, WE OFTEN OVER LOOK IT, CAUSE ARE MIND IS ALWAYS ROLLING, SO WE HAVE TO TAKE A STEP BACK AND ASK? WHAT AM I DOING TO SHOW MY WOMAN I LOVE HER?? WOMEN ASK YOUR SELF WHAT AM I DOING TO SHOW MY MAN I LOVE HIM, AND ITS NOT THE SEX THATS SHOWS LOVE!!

Snooping around

WHO SNOOPS AROUND MORE MEN OR WOMEN, MEANING CHECKIN YOUR MAN OR WOMAN PHONE, FACEBOOK, EMAIL, OR EVEN PHONE BILLS??? WHEN WILL PEOPLE LEARN WHEN U LOOK FOR DIRT U MAY FIND SOMETHING U DONT WANTT SEE!! SO WHO GOT IT WORSE MEN OR WOMEN?????

Membership class to Join a church

I need someone to explain something to me, Why do u have to go to Membership Classes to join a church? Why cant it be simple like the old days? they took u in the back made sure u was save, or got u saved then got your info, and bam u was a member, all in the same day? Im not saying its a bad thing but i need someone to explain to me why? im open ears.

Love.Live.Luckie!!!

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